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GET TO KNOW YOUR

BIRTH DATE MATCHES

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If you're a Premium Client, you may have already received our recommended birth dates  and begun  connecting with singles born on those dates.

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Before diving into a new relationship with one of your matches, consider perusing our Questionnaire together, to  learn more about one another.  

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By doing so, you will gain valuable insights into each other's characters and personalities.

1. Relationships & Children

A. What is your relationship status?

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B. How long was your longest romantic relationship?

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D. How often do you communicate with your exes? And why?

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D. Do you have children and if so, how old are they?

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E. How many children would you like to have?

2. Health & Nutrition

A. How is your physical and mental health?

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B. Have you ever been diagnosed with a mental illness?

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C. Do you have tattoos and/or piercings?

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D. Do you follow a special diet? If so, how important is it that your partner follows        the same diet?

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E. How physically active are you?

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F. How tall are you and how much do you weigh?

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3. lndulgences 

A. Which drugs have you used in the past 12 months?

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B. If you are a smoker/vaper how often do you smoke?

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C. If you drink alcohol, how many drinks per day on average?

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D. In the past 12 months, how many times have you gambled?

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E. Outside of work hours, how many hours per day do you spend on social media?

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F. Outside of work hours, how many hours per day do you spend gaming?

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4. Behind Closed Doors

A. How open minded are you sexually?

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B. How would you describe your sexual preferences?

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C. While in a committed, monogamous relationship, have you ever cheated?

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D. To what extent do you agree with the following statement: "If I am in a 

    monogamous relationship, I will end my relationship BEFORE I become

    involved with another person."

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E. Are there any past romantic relationships that you still secretly hang on to?

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5. Education & Employment

A. What are your academic achievements?

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B. What do you do for a living?

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C. How happy are you in your chosen field?

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D. Suppose that you are currently employed and one day you win $20 mil.               Would you: keep working in your field / retire / pursue other interests? 

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6. Personal Finance

A. Do you earn more than you spend?

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B. How much stress do your spending habits cause you?

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C. How much money do you spend on your image? 

    How important is it that others perceive you to be successful and/or wealthy?

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D. How much college or university debt do you have?

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E. What is your total annual income from all sources?

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F. If you are separated or divorced, do you pay alimony and/or child support?

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G. What is the total value of 1) your assets and 2) your liabilities?  

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7. Politics - Religion - Media

A. What best describes your political affiliation?

    Far Left/Left/Center/Right/Far Right/Apolitical

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B. How important is it that your partner shares your political affiliation?

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C. How religious are you?

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D. Is it important that your partner shares your religious beliefs or non-beliefs?

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8. Sports - Activities - Hobbies

A. Which sports do you watch and how much time do you devote to them?

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B. What physical activities, if any, do you enjoy?

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C. If you listen to music what are your favourite genres?

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D. If you work, how much vacation time do you get and how do you spend it?

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E. If you could wake up at any time in the morning when would it be?

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9. The Law & Your Secrets

A. How many times have you committed a crime more serious than a minor

    traffic infraction?

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B. How many times have you been charged with a crime more serious than

    a minor traffic infraction?

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C. How many times have you been convicted of a crime more serious than 

    a minor traffic infraction?

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D. How many times have you been detained, placed under house arrest or   

    incarcerated?

 

E. Have you ever been the defendant in a civil trial? If so, what was the

    outcome?

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F. Have you ever been physically violent with anyone?

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10. Home

A. Where did you live between the time you were born and age 18?

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B. Which city is closest to your home and how far do you live from it?

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C. What is your ideal living environment?

    country living / small town / small city / large city

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D. Do you own your own home? If so, what kind?

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E. Would you be willing to move away from where you live to pursue a

    relationship? If so how far?

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F. How clean and tidy should your partner be?

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G. If you lived alone, how much clutter would you have?

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11. Pets

A. Do you like owning and caring for pets or other animals?

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B. What animals have you owned?

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C. Are you allergic to any animals?

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12. The Inner You

A. As a child, how was your relationship with your parents?

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B. What is your love language? https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language   

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C. How empathetic are you? https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/quizzes/take_%E2%80%8Bquiz/empathy

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D. What is your attachment style? https://www.attachmentproject.com/

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EOn average do you like to: be in charge / supportive role / follower

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F. How ambitious are you?

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G. How confident and positive are you?

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H. How trustworthy and reliable are you?

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I. Is there any behavior that you refuse to tolerate with other people?

     Do you set boundaries with them?

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J. How do you deal with certain difficult situations?

    angry outbursts / internalize / ignore & walk away / other

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K. On average, how sociable are you outside of work?

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L. How generous are you with your time, money, and possessions?

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M. How often do you put other people's needs before your own?

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N. How agreeable are you?

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O. How happy, content, and fulfilled are you?

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